Signs Your Spouse May Be Cheating!!

Signs of a Cheating Spouse


Have you noticed changes in your relationship?

Is your partner working late or showing more interest in the way they dress?

Does your partner have a new found interest in working out and getting into shape?



Unfortunately these can all be signs of infidelity.

For most couples, changes such as these are red flags that something may be wrong and can be very difficult for the partner to ignore. Most people would begin to investigate things themselves which is understandable, but be aware that you may jeopardise the relationship by making accusations without significant proof. This could cause the spouse to become more secretive making it near impossible to investigate.

If you can relate to these situations, it may be time to contact a private investigator. Why hire a private investigator?

Infidelity often leads to a divorce, child custody battles and financial breakup, so it may be worth contacting a private investigator to begin building a case for yourself.

This type of investigation work needs to be covert so that your spouse is unaware that they are being followed. Just as a private investigator may confirm your worst fears, they may also be able to dismiss them.

"The best course of action is to remain calm and pretend that nothing is wrong."

Signs that your partner may be having an affair.


Personal Appearance - A cheating spouse may all of a sudden take more interest in their appearance by either buying new clothes, working out at the gym, and maybe even start dieting.

Daily Behaviour - Is your spouse now starting work earlier? Are they out to lunch for extended periods? Are they wanting to spend more time with their friends? These are all possible signs of a cheating spouse.

Emotionally Distant - A cheating spouse will often become emotionally distant, increasingly self absorbed, less interested in their partner and the families daily needs. Often they will show no interest in improving their marriage or relationship and show less interest towards their partner.

Mobile Phone Clues - An unfaithful spouse may appear to hide their mobile phone more often or become more protective of it. They may delete SMS messages and can often answer calls and suggest to you that the caller dialed the wrong number.

Change In Attitude - Another sign of infidelity is change in your spouses attitude. 70% of people surveyed said their spouse became angry, critical and at times cruel, also coupled with verbal abuse, constant put downs and little to no patience.

Changes With Sex - Another common sign of a cheating spouse may be in the bedroom. The cheating spouse may be less interested in sex, become less intimate or request things sexually that were not normally requested previously. These are all possible signs of infidelity.

Check The Vehicle - Check to see if their vehicle has an increased amount of km's that are not coinciding with the distance from home to work. Is your spouse leaving a change of clothes in the car? Has the baby seat been moved? Once again these are signs of infidelity.

Clothing - A cheating spouse may come home and head directly for the shower and change their clothes. You may even notice a different smell on their clothing.

Computer - An unfaithful partner may open a new email account, stay up late using the computer, create a new password and have a separate login. All signs your partner may be cheating.

New Hobbies - Cheaters will sometimes pickup a new hobby and appear to have a new zest for life outside the home while showing less energy for whatever is going on inside the home.